Tag: lifestyles

“use goals to plan your success”

It is nearly half the year , and I have honestly forgotten the goals, I made in the beginning of 2020. Quarantine did not make that any better. Apart from making me realise that I do have a goal which is to lose at least two stone before my 20th birthday.

• GOAL ONE: Losing weight before my birthday is one of my biggest goals. Simply because I don’t feel me in my body, which I wouldn’t say is entirely a bad thing, because I want to look and feel healthier.
• GOAL TWO: Take an active interest in my mental health. I would say I have a healthy mental health but with the way the world is going on…..I am going to leave it here.
• GOAL THREE: Be more productive. I find it way too easy to curl up into a ball , lay in bed and hide.
• GOAL FOUR : Stop stressing about things that are not in my control or are in the future. I would not be shocked if I am the only one who stresses about their wedding day. I am 19. What wedding please.
• GOAL FIVE : Learn to stop feeling guilty when you have not done anything wrong . This one, may well and truly take longer than six months to learn due to the fact that, it would require me to disconnect certain wires and reconnect them to other wires. I find myself blaming myself for being unlucky and following the “why me narrative” which is not true as certain things happen in life that are not in my control.